“Recreational Intimacy” is a concept introduced by eHarmony’s relationship expert, Laurel House, emphasizing the importance of shared experiences in deepening bonds between partners. While touch and words are common expressions of intimacy, shared activities can offer more enduring connections. These experiences don’t have to be extravagant; what’s essential is being present in the moment with an open heart.
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Key Points:Â
- Recreational intimacy is about shared experiences, which can serve as a love language, providing lasting connections beyond traditional forms of intimacy.
- Activities that encourage recreational intimacy don’t have to be costly or elaborate. It’s about enjoying the activity together with presence and openness.
- Engaging in personal relaxation or comfort activities with a partner, like meditation or a beach walk, can help associate feelings of peace and calm with one another.
- Playing tourist in one’s city, exploring local landmarks, or taking part in iconic activities can change perspectives and deepen appreciation for surroundings and relationships.
- Friendly competition, be it physical sports or mind-engaging games, can release endorphins, enhance connection, and showcase strategic thinking in partners, which can be seen as attractive.
